The Top 10 Ways to Tell If Your Mind Is Quiet
Quietness of mind is an essential prerequisite to clear thinking.
Is your mind "quiet"?
Here are ten ways to tell.
1. You can sit quietly, breathe naturally, and not have your mind filled
with extraneous thoughts.
For many people, sitting quietly is an oxymoron. Simply stilling the
body does not in itself still one's mind. Quietness of mind is a function
of diligent practice rather than accidental coincidence.
2. Your pulse is close to your resting heart rate.
How sensitive are you to your heart rate at any given moment? Many skilled
athletes can sense their pulse rate within a beat or two. Just for
the record, your resting heart rate is the speed of your heart in beats
per minute just after you awake in the morning, but before you get
out of bed. When you become still and calm, your heart rate slows,
reflecting a measure of quietness.
3. You feel a sense of peace.
Sometimes called, "bliss", this feeling is described in the
Bible as "the peace that passeth understanding". It's an inner
calm that is not based on outer conditions, but one that radiates within
oneself. You can't force it; you can only experience it.
4. Outside distractions appear remote and cease to distract.
One of the distinctions between mantric and breath forms of meditation
is that, in mantric meditation, one tends to "tune out"--to
become oblivious of external stimuli. In breath meditation, however,
the effects are different. Instead of tuning out, noise becomes muted.
Sounds are heard, but are not bothersome. This is an especially efficient
way of relating from a quiet state. Again, to employ a Biblical metaphor,
you are "in the world, but not of it"--a peaceful place to
be.
5. You feel a sense of sharp clarity as though peering through a properly
focused mircoscope.
The difference between this kind of clarity and that which is purely
intellectual is that it is effortless. You might compare it to gazing
at a Renoir or a Cezanne versus working out a math problem. It's in this
state that insights, feelings and images appear spontaneously.
6. You encounter a time warp.
Many professional athletes have reported instances in which the scene
in front of them suddenly shifts into slow motion and they feel as
though they have all the time in the world to make the play, catch
the ball, etc. This so-called "time shift" occurs most often
when you are particularly quiet inside. It's not something you can
practice; it just happens.
7. Insights and solutions to problems appear spontaneously.
A significant aspect of the creative process is a state of hopelessness
or letting go of the problem, usually following and intense and sustained
effort to analyze the problem. Often, it's in that narrow window opportunity
when one gives up trying that the solution suddenly appears. This kind
of spontaneous problem solving usually occurs only when one's mind
is very quiet, at rest to observe and subtly process the information
it has obtained.
8. Being non-judgmental becomes easy.
For most of us, being non-judgmental is an effort. For the truly quiet
mind, it's simply an outcome. It's not that a discipline of holding
back judgment has been imposed, but rather that your mind has been
freed of the need to judge.
9. Disparities become more apparent.
A truly quiet mind picks up discontinuities between speech and action,
between what is and what appears to be.
10. People notice.
But usually, not for a while. People tend to think of you the way you
were, long after you've changed. Sooner or later, however, the quiet
mind shows through and people begin to observe and gravitate towards
it. Quietness attracts. When your mind is really quiet, you attract
others who find that being around you is restful and, at the same time,
invigorating. (For specific guidance on how to quiet your mind, you
may want to consult Top Ten List #64: "Top Ten Ways to Quiet Your
Mind".)
This piece was originally submitted by Shale Paul, Executive Coach,
who can be reached at shale@shalecoach.com, or visited on the web. Shale
Paul wants you to know: I work with individuals who are committed to
getting ahead, changing direction, or simply growing.". The original
source is: Written by Shale Paul, Executive Coach. Copyright 1996, Coach
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